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July 23, 2015

I Can't Bear the Thought of Dating Yet, Either

July 23, 2015/ Wendy Paris
I Can't Bear the Thought of Dating Yet, Either

Some people love dating after divorce. If you're not up for it, here are three reasons why taking a break can be a great decision. 

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July 02, 2015

Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

July 02, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

I found it more productive to seek help with a discrete problem rather than a Total Personality Overhaul of my spouse, or me.

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June 11, 2015

2 Stellar Communication Skills I Learned in Divorce

June 11, 2015/ Wendy Paris
2 Stellar Communication Skills I Learned in Divorce

 As Sun Tzu wrote, “Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.” 

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June 04, 2015

Get Your Groove Back in Divorce

June 04, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Get Your Groove Back in Divorce

Q&A: Sociologist Christine Carter talks about finding your "sweet spot," even in very sour times. 

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May 28, 2015

How Newsweek Got it All Wrong About Divorce

May 28, 2015/ Wendy Paris
How Newsweek Got it All Wrong About Divorce

An article about some states' wrong-headed attempts to complicate divorce also lambasts very helpful new services for co-parenting. 

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May 07, 2015

The D-I-Y Divorce

May 07, 2015/ Wendy Paris
The D-I-Y Divorce

Why we chose to use a storefront divorce "store" to make our split legal. 

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April 16, 2015

Destination Divorce: The Tropical Mediation Vacation

April 16, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Destination Divorce: The Tropical Mediation Vacation

Should you go for a tropical mediation vacation? The founder of DivorceHotel says, "Yes!" Here's why.

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April 08, 2015

4 Reasons You Might Be Better Friends After Divorce

April 08, 2015/ Wendy Paris
4 Reasons You Might Be Better Friends After Divorce

You need less from an ex. You might change. And two other relationship-improvement factors. 

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April 01, 2015

2 Team Approaches That Can Save You Thousands

April 01, 2015/ Wendy Paris
2 Team Approaches That Can Save You Thousands

Mediation and collaborative divorce are two of the most important innovations in family law—and can save you money and heartache.

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March 25, 2015

We Need to Change How We Talk about Divorce

March 25, 2015/ Wendy Paris
We Need to Change How We Talk about Divorce

The mismatch between perception and reality continues to make people behave poorly in divorce. How to move forward peacefully. 

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March 11, 2015

5 Tips for Parenting, Post-Marriage

March 11, 2015/ Wendy Paris
5 Tips for Parenting, Post-Marriage

Some people become better parents after divorce because they take time to really focus on their children—and are no longer distracted by fights with a spouse.

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March 04, 2015

What Kids Really Need to Thrive

March 04, 2015/ Wendy Paris
What Kids Really Need to Thrive

An overwhelming body of research shows that 80-percent of children of divorce do well in life. Here's how to help yours thrive.

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3 Tips for Being a Super Stepfather

Splitopia.com contributors Naomi Cahn and Amy Ziettlow share their research and insights on how to form a great relationship with stepchildren. 

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask
Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask

A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended? 

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VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)
VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

Taking ownership means embracing your power to create your own future. 

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Should You Throw a Divorce Party?
Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce. 

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Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day

Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how. 

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Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One

Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer.  How to know when it's time to seek help.

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Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?

Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides. 

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Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage. 

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Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week. 

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