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Why We Love The Day After A Holiday
Mariella Rudi
Why We Love The Day After A Holiday
Mariella Rudi

Spring holidays celebrate renewal; the next day, we celebrate retail sales. 

Mariella Rudi
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Wendy Paris
Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree
Wendy Paris

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

Wendy Paris
5 Tips for Organized Co-Parenting
Alysia Patterson Mueller
5 Tips for Organized Co-Parenting
Alysia Patterson Mueller

When you remarry and throw in another kid or two (or three), good organization can mean the difference between a harmonious home and total chaos.

Alysia Patterson Mueller
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Susan Orlins
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Susan Orlins

Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week. 

Susan Orlins
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation
Wendy Paris
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation
Wendy Paris

Tech lets you get informed, find professionals, log child support and track details—leading to calm and a sense of control.

Wendy Paris
Why Living Near a Co-Parent Makes Real Estate Sense
Laura Brienza
Why Living Near a Co-Parent Makes Real Estate Sense
Laura Brienza

As "Jane the Virgin" shows, living close to an ex can ease logistical and emotional complications of co-parenting. 

Laura Brienza
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Stephanie O'Leary, Psy.D.
Solo Parenting & Screen Time: New Rules to Know
Stephanie O'Leary, Psy.D.

The American Academy of Pediatrics has relaxed the "rules" on screen time. Psychologist and parenting expert Stephanie O'Leary offers tips for navigating them in real life.

Stephanie O'Leary, Psy.D.
Kids and Divorce: "I Wish They Had Told Me It Wasn't My Fault"
Susan Orlins
Kids and Divorce: "I Wish They Had Told Me It Wasn't My Fault"
Susan Orlins

Looking back on her parents' long-ago divorce, one 60-something woman shares what they did wrong, and right. 

Susan Orlins
Celeb Fitness Trainers Model Fit Blended Family
Laura Brienza
Celeb Fitness Trainers Model Fit Blended Family
Laura Brienza

Extreme Weight Loss co-hosts Heidi and Chris Powell take to social media to talk about sharing parenting duties with Heidi's ex. 

Laura Brienza
Wendy Paris
Solo Parenting and Setting Limits: 6 Steps You Need to Know
Wendy Paris

Setting and keeping limits can be extra hard when you're the only adult in the house. Psychologist Stephanie O'Leary gives easy success strategies.

Wendy Paris
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Wendy Paris
Is There a Best Age For Kids to Face a Divorce?
Wendy Paris

When you divorce matters less than how you do it. How to help kids thrive, whatever their age. 

Wendy Paris
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Splitopia Staff
Must We Follow State Child Support Guidelines? We Like Our Plan!
Splitopia Staff

While most states let you opt out of state-mandated formulas, you still need a fair agreement for everyone's happiness. (1 Question, 3 Lawyers)

Splitopia Staff
3 Reasons Being a (Single) Mom Makes You Hot
Laura Brienza
3 Reasons Being a (Single) Mom Makes You Hot
Laura Brienza

Telling a date that you have, um . . . children, can feel scary.  But parenting builds valuable (sexy) skills, as TV's The Mindy Project shows. 

Laura Brienza
Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting
Wendy Paris
Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting
Wendy Paris

A stepparent is not a legal relationship, meaning the connection is what really matters. 

Wendy Paris
Talking to Kids About Divorce: What I Learned from Reality TV
Mekeisha Madden Toby
Talking to Kids About Divorce: What I Learned from Reality TV
Mekeisha Madden Toby

There Goes the Motherhood offers some genuinely good insight on parenting in divorce. 

Mekeisha Madden Toby
Divorce in the Classroom: How to Create a Supportive Space
Mekeisha Madden Toby
Divorce in the Classroom: How to Create a Supportive Space
Mekeisha Madden Toby

As parents, we can help teachers and administrators be sensitive to changes in our family, and better support our kids.  Here's what some schools are doing.

Mekeisha Madden Toby
Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce
Wendy Paris
Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce
Wendy Paris

How Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie divorce affects them, their kids—and those of us who look toward celebs for inspiration.  Let's hope it's a good divorce. 

Wendy Paris
The Good Hollywood Divorce
Mekeisha Madden Toby
The Good Hollywood Divorce
Mekeisha Madden Toby

Gwyneth and Chris and one important truth: it's not divorce that matters so much for kids but rather how we act toward each other—in divorce, as in marriage.

Mekeisha Madden Toby
Suing to Relocate: How and Why to Avoid It
Laura Brienza
Suing to Relocate: How and Why to Avoid It
Laura Brienza

Why suing to move away with your children can mean no one wins. Scenes from a good divorce gone bad in Grey's Anatomy. 

Laura Brienza
Divorce in the Community: How to Reassure Children
Laura Brienza
Divorce in the Community: How to Reassure Children
Laura Brienza

Be concrete, simple and open to hearing your child’s anxieties.

Laura Brienza
A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce
CJ Schepers
A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce
CJ Schepers

PERSONAL ESSAY: “'You’ll end up like your mother,' was one of the harshest critiques of your divorce.  That’s why I’m writing this letter." 

CJ Schepers
Fighting About Child Support? Yes, You Need SupportPay.Com
Wendy Paris
Fighting About Child Support? Yes, You Need SupportPay.Com
Wendy Paris

Q&A: Launched in 2013 by Silicon Valley divorced mom Sheri Atwood, SupportPay.com helps parents manage payments—and emotions. 

Wendy Paris
For Happy Kids, Keep Your Divorce Out of Court
Wendy Paris
For Happy Kids, Keep Your Divorce Out of Court
Wendy Paris

Why you do not want a judge to make parenting decisions for you—and how to avoid a court battle over custody.

Wendy Paris
How Married People Should Talk About Divorce
Wendy Paris
How Married People Should Talk About Divorce
Wendy Paris

Focus on your commitment as parents and love for your children. 

Wendy Paris
Helping Kids Be Organized in 2 Homes
Wendy Paris
Helping Kids Be Organized in 2 Homes
Wendy Paris

Not so organized yourself? Use the fact of your divorce as motivation to learn. Five ways to help kids be organizational super stars.

Wendy Paris
Nurture Friendships to Help Kids Cope With Divorce
Wendy Paris
Nurture Friendships to Help Kids Cope With Divorce
Wendy Paris

Q&A: Psychologist and mother of four Eileen Kennedy-Moore talks about how to avoid friendship disruptions in divorce, and help kids make new ones.

Wendy Paris
5 Tips for Parenting, Post-Marriage
Wendy Paris
5 Tips for Parenting, Post-Marriage
Wendy Paris

Some people become better parents after divorce because they take time to really focus on their children—and are no longer distracted by fights with a spouse.

Wendy Paris
What Kids Really Need to Thrive
Wendy Paris
What Kids Really Need to Thrive
Wendy Paris

An overwhelming body of research shows that 80-percent of children of divorce do well in life. Here's how to help yours thrive.

Wendy Paris
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Great Reads: Our Top Picks
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day
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Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree
Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

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