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Self-Serving Post on Dating Younger Men
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Self-Serving Post on Dating Younger Men
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Uplifting article in The Telegraph about the "trend" of older women and younger men. 

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How to Be More Attractive
Wendy Paris

While most of us are drawn to looks, attraction is far more complex than it may appear at first sight. The experts, and real people, weigh in.   

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Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First
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Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First
Wendy Paris

Q&A:  A divorce can make for a better second marriage.  Golden Globe- and Emmy-winning "Sex and The City" writer Cindy Chupack explains why.

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Remarriage: 5 Keys to Successful New Love
Phillip Kiehl
Remarriage: 5 Keys to Successful New Love
Phillip Kiehl

Marriage and family therapist Phil Kiehl vowed to make his second marriage better than his first. Here are five steps he took to create lasting love.

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Military Divorce . . . and Successful Second Marriage
Alysia Patterson Mueller
Military Divorce . . . and Successful Second Marriage
Alysia Patterson Mueller

This time around, Kamal and Jennifer are dedicated to doing it right.  One military wife reports on love in the trenches.

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Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup
Regina A. DeMeo
Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup
Regina A. DeMeo

Far from a vote of no-confidence, a prenup shows an educated awareness of the importance of clarity. 

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Same Partner, Second Wedding
Wendy Paris
Same Partner, Second Wedding
Wendy Paris

For some couples, time apart leads to reconciliation.  Journalist Abby Ellin's article in The New York Times about couples who divorced, then remarried. 

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Can You Prevent a Bad Divorce . . . While Married?
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Can You Prevent a Bad Divorce . . . While Married?
Wendy Paris

Talking about divorce while you’re happily married isn’t a bad thing.

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A Successful Blended Family Takes Effort, Honesty
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A Successful Blended Family Takes Effort, Honesty
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Q&A: Start by having realistic expectations, particularly if you have children, says Anne Brennan Malec, a Chicago-based clinical psychologist and relationships author.

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Great Reads: Our Top Picks
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day

Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how. 

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Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One

Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer.  How to know when it's time to seek help.

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Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?

Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides. 

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Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage. 

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Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week. 

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