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Splitopia Staff
Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"
Splitopia Staff

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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Wendy Paris
Hosting a Dinner for 13, Newly Single
Wendy Paris

Why hosting a dinner party for 13 people the month after my husband moved out gave me confidence to move forward as a single woman.  What you can do to gain strength. 

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Wendy Paris
Caroline Jumpertz
Friends of the Divorcing Deserve No-Fault, Too
Caroline Jumpertz

Are you making friends choose sides?  Writer Caroline Jumpertz doesn't want to lose any more loved ones in other people's divorces. 

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Caroline Jumpertz
Rebecca Cullen
Everything I Need to Know about Divorce I Learned from The Odd Couple
Rebecca Cullen

Splitopia.com Contributing Writer Rebecca Cullen riffs on how The Odd Couple helped her through her parents' divorce, and her own by showing the power of friendship.

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Rebecca Cullen
Amy Zietlow
Who Gets Custody of the Congregation?
Amy Zietlow

Divorce, like other major life changes, can impact your religious observance and spirituality.  Four things to consider, including: Must you break up with your congregation? 

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Amy Zietlow
Who Walks Down the Aisle? 5 Tips for a Wedding with Stepparents Involved
Amy Zietlow
Who Walks Down the Aisle? 5 Tips for a Wedding with Stepparents Involved
Amy Zietlow

Parents, stepparents, step-siblings, oh my! How to honor all those you call family when planning a wedding.  

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Amy Zietlow
Divorce on HBO: Behind the Scenes with Cast and Creators
Mekeisha Madden Toby
Divorce on HBO: Behind the Scenes with Cast and Creators
Mekeisha Madden Toby

HBO’s new relationship comedy Divorce is more about marriage than the breaking up of one. The creators and stars dish.

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Mekeisha Madden Toby
10 Tips For a Friend Facing Divorce
Lara Bazelon
10 Tips For a Friend Facing Divorce
Lara Bazelon

What you need to know to get through your divorce and get on—from how to tell the kids to remembering to indulge yourself, within reason.

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Lara Bazelon
Laughter in the Face of It: Splitopia Improv Show
Wendy Paris
Laughter in the Face of It: Splitopia Improv Show
Wendy Paris

Why I decided to do an improv comedy show about divorce. 

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Wendy Paris
Divorce in the Classroom: How to Create a Supportive Space
Mekeisha Madden Toby
Divorce in the Classroom: How to Create a Supportive Space
Mekeisha Madden Toby

As parents, we can help teachers and administrators be sensitive to changes in our family, and better support our kids.  Here's what some schools are doing.

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Mekeisha Madden Toby
How Couples Counseling Improved My Divorce
Linda Zukauskas
How Couples Counseling Improved My Divorce
Linda Zukauskas

Couples counseling can be surprisingly helpful after you've split up. Here's a look at the upsides. 

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Linda Zukauskas
Hey Clergy! Yes, You Should Help Congregants Through Divorce
Wendy Paris
Hey Clergy! Yes, You Should Help Congregants Through Divorce
Wendy Paris

Q&A: What role should churches play in helping families through divorce? 

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Wendy Paris
Fickle Friends in Divorce? How to Make New Ones
Rebecca Cullen
Fickle Friends in Divorce? How to Make New Ones
Rebecca Cullen

"In divorce, I lost a lot of circumstantial friends.  It was painful, for sure, but eventually, as I discovered, it freed me up to create better relationships." 

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Rebecca Cullen
The Grey Divorce: Coping with a Late-in-Life Split
Wendy Paris
The Grey Divorce: Coping with a Late-in-Life Split
Wendy Paris

An article on Grandparents.com addresses the challenges of late-in-life uncoupling, which is on the rise. 

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Wendy Paris
Divorce in the Community: How to Reassure Children
Laura Brienza
Divorce in the Community: How to Reassure Children
Laura Brienza

Be concrete, simple and open to hearing your child’s anxieties.

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Laura Brienza
A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce
CJ Schepers
A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce
CJ Schepers

PERSONAL ESSAY: “'You’ll end up like your mother,' was one of the harshest critiques of your divorce.  That’s why I’m writing this letter." 

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CJ Schepers
My Friends All Have Opinions About My Divorce: 5 Helpful Ones
Susan Orlins
My Friends All Have Opinions About My Divorce: 5 Helpful Ones
Susan Orlins

An inveterate advice-seeker shares the best input she received during her divorce and after.

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Susan Orlins
Reconnecting with My Past Helps Me Value the Present
Wendy Paris
Reconnecting with My Past Helps Me Value the Present
Wendy Paris

Reconnecting with places and people from our past can help us remember who we are, and how far we've come.

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Wendy Paris
Is Marriage Old-Fashioned? Obsolete?
Wendy Paris
Is Marriage Old-Fashioned? Obsolete?
Wendy Paris

I'm a big fan of marriage, but during my book tour this past Spring, this question came up:  Do we actually need it anymore? 

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Wendy Paris
Friends Help in Divorce
Wendy Paris
Friends Help in Divorce
Wendy Paris

I had so much help from so many people over the three-plus years of writing the book, was keenly aware of the importance of friends and family in all major life transitions.

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Wendy Paris
DivorceForce Offers Community
Wendy Paris
DivorceForce Offers Community
Wendy Paris

Q&A: Co-creator of DivorceForce.com, Gregory Frank, gives advice on how to find your pillars of support.

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Wendy Paris
How Married People Should Talk About Divorce
Wendy Paris
How Married People Should Talk About Divorce
Wendy Paris

Focus on your commitment as parents and love for your children. 

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Wendy Paris
Make New Friends, Keep Some Old
Wendy Paris
Make New Friends, Keep Some Old
Wendy Paris

People don't usually have the chance to shake up their friendship circle and start over, but in a big transition, you do.

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Wendy Paris
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Great Reads: Our Top Picks
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day

Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how. 

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Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One

Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer.  How to know when it's time to seek help.

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Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?

Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides. 

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Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage. 

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Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week. 

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