The Secret To Divorce Success: Retool Your Resilience
/Q&A: "Resilient people make conscious choices every day for practices that energize, enliven or strengthen." Maria Sirois on powerful habits.
Read MoreQ&A: "Resilient people make conscious choices every day for practices that energize, enliven or strengthen." Maria Sirois on powerful habits.
Read MoreBOOK EXCERPT: "We must uncover within us an aptitude for the art of losing." Clinical psychologist Maria Sirois shows how in A Short Course in Happiness After Loss.
Read MoreQ&A: Even in a decent divorce, stress is unavoidable. Hormones can have a huge impact on whether we feel like “ourselves,” says Dr. Susan Sklar.
Read MoreA spiritual practice can remind you that you are part of a greater whole—a comforting awareness to bring to divorce.
Read MoreWe often feel overwhelmed by urgent-seeming actions we must take in divorce. Sometimes the best route to recovery is to sit still.
Read MoreHow one man fought back loneliness after divorce, and learned to appreciate (or at least tolerate) being alone.
Read MorePERSONAL ESSAY: "You know that feeling when everything you were building burns down?" How wonder helped one man recuperate.
Read MorePERSONAL ESSAY: “'You’ll end up like your mother,' was one of the harshest critiques of your divorce. That’s why I’m writing this letter."
Read MoreAn inveterate advice-seeker shares the best input she received during her divorce and after.
Read MoreYou don't have to be a great poet to use expressive writing to help you move through divorce. It's a tool to help all of us face what we're feeling.
Read MoreHow one New Jersey-based actor, educator and mother wrote a one-woman play to help her laugh at—and learn from—her marriage's end.
Read MoreKathryn Peterson is the "Carrie Bradshaw of the South," blogging about divorce for the Houston Chronicle's "Grey Matters" column.
Read MoreI was excited to talk to the fabulous happiness guru Gretchen Rubin about Splitopia for her site.
Read MoreQ&A: Author and journalist Carlin Flora on the upsides of falling short. Hint: you learn empathy, humility, maturity.
Read MoreQ&A: "Being resilient doesn’t mean we don’t go through difficulties and hardships." Tal Ben-Shahar's five tips on bouncing back.
Read MoreI found it more productive to seek help with a discrete problem rather than a Total Personality Overhaul of my spouse, or me.
Read MoreQ&A: Sociologist Christine Carter talks about finding your "sweet spot," even in very sour times.
Read MoreWhile most of us are drawn to looks, attraction is far more complex than it may appear at first sight. The experts, and real people, weigh in.
Splitopia.com contributors Naomi Cahn and Amy Ziettlow share their research and insights on how to form a great relationship with stepchildren.
A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended?
We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce.
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Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.
Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing.
Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.
Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how.
Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family.
Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer. How to know when it's time to seek help.
Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides.
Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage.
Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week.
Uplifting article in The Telegraph about the "trend" of older women and younger men.