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September 22, 2016

The Secret To Divorce Success: Retool Your Resilience

September 22, 2016/ Wendy Paris
The Secret To Divorce Success: Retool Your Resilience

Q&A: "Resilient people make conscious choices every day for practices that energize, enliven or strengthen." Maria Sirois on powerful habits.

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September 22, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
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August 05, 2016

The Art of Coping with Loss In the Real World

August 05, 2016/ Maria Sirois
The Art of Coping with Loss In the Real World

BOOK EXCERPT: "We must uncover within us an aptitude for the art of losing." Clinical psychologist Maria Sirois shows how in A Short Course in Happiness After Loss.

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August 05, 2016/ Maria Sirois/
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August 05, 2016

Dazed and Confused? Hormone Imbalance Can Increase Stress

August 05, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller
Dazed and Confused?  Hormone Imbalance Can Increase Stress

Q&A: Even in a decent divorce, stress is unavoidable. Hormones can have a huge impact on whether we feel like “ourselves,” says Dr. Susan Sklar.

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August 05, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
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August 04, 2016

Yes, You Can Develop a Spiritual Life (And Why You Might Want To)

August 04, 2016/ Nadia Colburn
Yes, You Can Develop a Spiritual Life (And Why You Might Want To)

A spiritual practice can remind you that you are part of a greater whole—a comforting awareness to bring to divorce.

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August 04, 2016/ Nadia Colburn/
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August 04, 2016

Divorce Recovery 101: The Do-Nothing Approach to Coping

August 04, 2016/ Nadia Colburn
Divorce Recovery 101: The Do-Nothing Approach to Coping

We often feel overwhelmed by urgent-seeming actions we must take in divorce. Sometimes the best route to recovery is to sit still. 

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August 04, 2016/ Nadia Colburn/
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do nothing, divorce recovery, Front Page Middle
August 04, 2016

Living With Loneliness (and Liking It?)

August 04, 2016/ David Kruchowski
Living With Loneliness (and Liking It?)

How one man fought back loneliness after divorce, and learned to appreciate (or at least tolerate) being alone. 

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August 04, 2016

The Secret Super Power: Wonder

August 04, 2016/ Jeffrey Davis
The Secret Super Power: Wonder

PERSONAL ESSAY: "You know that feeling when everything you were building burns down?" How wonder helped one man recuperate. 

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August 04, 2016/ Jeffrey Davis/
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August 04, 2016

A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce

August 04, 2016/ CJ Schepers
A Letter to My Daughter on the Eve of Her Divorce

PERSONAL ESSAY: “'You’ll end up like your mother,' was one of the harshest critiques of your divorce.  That’s why I’m writing this letter." 

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August 04, 2016

My Friends All Have Opinions About My Divorce: 5 Helpful Ones

August 04, 2016/ Susan Orlins
My Friends All Have Opinions About My Divorce: 5 Helpful Ones

An inveterate advice-seeker shares the best input she received during her divorce and after.

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July 20, 2016

Writing Your Way Through Divorce

July 20, 2016/ Nadia Colburn
Writing Your Way Through Divorce

You don't have to be a great poet to use expressive writing to help you move through divorce. It's a tool to help all of us face what we're feeling.

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June 06, 2016

Divorce Overwhelm? There's a Play in That!

June 06, 2016/ Wendy Paris

How one New Jersey-based actor, educator and mother wrote a one-woman play to help her laugh at—and learn from—her marriage's end. 

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April 29, 2016

Divorce in Houston: Journalist Makes Copy from Chaos

April 29, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Divorce in Houston: Journalist Makes Copy from Chaos

Kathryn Peterson is the "Carrie Bradshaw of the South," blogging about divorce for the Houston Chronicle's "Grey Matters" column. 

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April 29, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
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March 02, 2016

Gretchen Rubin Writes about Splitopia

March 02, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Gretchen Rubin Writes about Splitopia

I was excited to talk to the fabulous happiness guru Gretchen Rubin about Splitopia for her site. 

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March 02, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
gretchen rubio, splitopia, happiness
October 08, 2015

Does Divorce = Failure? (Is Failure a Bad Thing?)

October 08, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Does Divorce = Failure? (Is Failure a Bad Thing?)

Q&A: Author and journalist Carlin Flora on the upsides of falling short. Hint: you learn empathy, humility, maturity.

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September 03, 2015

How to Bounce Back from Anything

September 03, 2015/ Wendy Paris
How to Bounce Back from Anything

Q&A: "Being resilient doesn’t mean we don’t go through difficulties and hardships." Tal Ben-Shahar's five tips on bouncing back.

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September 03, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
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July 02, 2015

Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

July 02, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

I found it more productive to seek help with a discrete problem rather than a Total Personality Overhaul of my spouse, or me.

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July 02, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
You & Your Ex, Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving
June 04, 2015

Get Your Groove Back in Divorce

June 04, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Get Your Groove Back in Divorce

Q&A: Sociologist Christine Carter talks about finding your "sweet spot," even in very sour times. 

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June 04, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
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