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June 14, 2017

Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask

A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended? 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Dating & Sex
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June 14, 2017

VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

Taking ownership means embracing your power to create your own future. 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Ownership, resilience, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, You & Your Ex
Divorce Party, Closure, Friends, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

A new book, and website, by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant.

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
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May 12, 2017

Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

Learn more about Principle of Parting #1: Commit to self-compassion in this video series. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Principle of Parting, Self-Compassion, universality, Front Page Middle
April 26, 2017

Great Reads: Our Top Picks

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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April 26, 2017

Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

Check out the first of a collection of videos about the Seven Principles of Parting.

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving
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April 26, 2017

Divorce, Millennial Style

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Divorce, Millennial Style

Read the latest on the Good Divorce in the April issue of Marie Claire. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex
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April 11, 2017

Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First

April 11, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First

Q&A:  A divorce can make for a better second marriage.  Golden Globe- and Emmy-winning "Sex and The City" writer Cindy Chupack explains why.

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April 11, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Your New Relationship
Sex and the City, Front Page Middle
March 02, 2017

What Is Closure, Anyway?

March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris

New York Magazine's Emily Esfahani Smith talks to Wendy Paris about getting closure after a break-up. 

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March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, You & Your Ex
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March 01, 2017

Where Can I Find Some Good Divorce Resources?

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

From apps to websites to books to classes: our top picks for getting through divorce and managing co-parenting. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Dear Splitopian, Money
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February 28, 2017

5 Tips for Organized Co-Parenting

February 28, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller
5 Tips for Organized Co-Parenting

When you remarry and throw in another kid or two (or three), good organization can mean the difference between a harmonious home and total chaos.

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February 28, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
Blending Families, Parenting
Co-Parenting, organization, Front Page Middle
November 16, 2016

Learn About Love at the Beach, With Others

November 16, 2016/ Laura Brienza
Learn About Love at the Beach, With Others

Q&A: Marissa Nelson, founder of IntimacyMoons, on why you should consider a therapeutic workshop at a luxury resort. 

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November 16, 2016/ Laura Brienza/
Coping & Thriving, Dating & Sex
Q&A, IntimicayMoons, Front Page Middle
November 02, 2016

Must We Follow State Child Support Guidelines? We Like Our Plan!

November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff

While most states let you opt out of state-mandated formulas, you still need a fair agreement for everyone's happiness. (1 Question, 3 Lawyers)

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November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Parenting, Legal Advice
1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, child support, family court, Front Page Middle, 1 question
October 26, 2016

3 Reasons Being a (Single) Mom Makes You Hot

October 26, 2016/ Laura Brienza
3 Reasons Being a (Single) Mom Makes You Hot

Telling a date that you have, um . . . children, can feel scary.  But parenting builds valuable (sexy) skills, as TV's The Mindy Project shows. 

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October 26, 2016/ Laura Brienza/
Dating & Sex, Parenting
divorce on TV, Front Page Middle
October 26, 2016

Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting

October 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting

A stepparent is not a legal relationship, meaning the connection is what really matters. 

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October 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Blending Families, Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog, Parenting
stepparents, legal rights, child custody, Front Page Middle
October 26, 2016

Everything I Need to Know about Divorce I Learned from The Odd Couple

October 26, 2016/ Rebecca Cullen

Splitopia.com Contributing Writer Rebecca Cullen riffs on how The Odd Couple helped her through her parents' divorce, and her own by showing the power of friendship.

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October 26, 2016/ Rebecca Cullen/
Friends Relatives Commu
divorce on tv, personal essay, Front Page Middle
October 19, 2016

I Was a Typical Divorce Lawyer, Until I Got Divorced

October 19, 2016/ Katherine Miller

LAWYERS SPEAK OUT: "I can’t state this strongly enough: the adversarial, traditional legal process can destroy families, and lives."

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October 19, 2016/ Katherine Miller/
Legal Advice
mediation, adversarial law, Front Page Middle, personal essay
October 19, 2016

Struggling to Move Forward? Try Walking in a Circle

October 19, 2016/ Linda Zukauskas
Struggling to Move Forward? Try Walking in a Circle

Walking a labyrinth is a from of meditation-while-moving.  It can help you get centered and gain clarity about what to do next. 

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October 19, 2016/ Linda Zukauskas/
Coping & Thriving
Front Page Middle, meditation
October 19, 2016

Principle of Parting #1: Commit to Self-Compassion

October 19, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Principle of Parting #1: Commit to Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is one of the most important traits to develop to have a good divorce. Here's how. 

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October 19, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving
self-compassion, Front Page Middle
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