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January 24, 2017

New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

Tech lets you get informed, find professionals, log child support and track details—leading to calm and a sense of control.

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January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
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January 11, 2017

Alimony for Life: Am I Stuck Supporting Him Forever?

January 11, 2017/ Splitopia Staff
Alimony for Life: Am I Stuck Supporting Him Forever?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Alimony or "spousal support," as it's often called today, can go for life, though increasingly it's for a specific period of time. 

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January 11, 2017/ Splitopia Staff/
Legal Advice, You & Your Ex
December 07, 2016

Seeking Freeedom? Principle of Parting #3: Don’t Confuse Filing with Closure

December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris

Rushing to make it legal can actually slow down your divorce and make closure harder. 

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December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Legal Advice
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December 07, 2016

How Good Divorce Lawyers Have Improved Divorce

December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris

We've all heard about "shark" lawyers circulating failing marriages, but some of the best innovations in cooperative divorce and co-parenting come from divorce professionals. 

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December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog, Editor's Picks
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November 30, 2016

One Question, Three Lawyers: How to Find a Good Mediator

November 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
One Question, Three Lawyers: How to Find a Good Mediator

Dear Splitopia: I want to mediate, but how do I know if a mediator is any good? 

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November 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Legal Advice, Editor's Picks
1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, legal a, find legal advice, legal advice
November 16, 2016

Same-Sex Divorce Can Still Be a Legal Maze

November 16, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Same-Sex Divorce Can Still Be a Legal Maze

Q&A: Divorce equality is an important right.  Attorney Michele Zavos explains the benefits of legal divorce. 

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November 16, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
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Same-Sex Divorce, Legal Advice
November 09, 2016

Mediation Magic: Creative Ways to Reach Agreement

November 09, 2016/ Susan Orlins

"When major disagreements arise, I ask the parties to take turns sitting in the chairs of each child and responding as if they were that child." Lawyer and mediator Don Greenstein on creative ways to help couples agree. 

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November 02, 2016

Must We Follow State Child Support Guidelines? We Like Our Plan!

November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff

While most states let you opt out of state-mandated formulas, you still need a fair agreement for everyone's happiness. (1 Question, 3 Lawyers)

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November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Parenting, Legal Advice
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October 31, 2016

How Do I Avoid Spending My Savings on Divorce Lawyers?

October 31, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
How Do I Avoid Spending My Savings on Divorce Lawyers?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWERS: There are many ways to reduce the legal cost of divorce. Here seven good ones. 

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October 31, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
divorce lawyers, money, divorce legal advice, 1 Question 3 Lawyers
October 26, 2016

Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting

October 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Read These (Easy) Rules for Successful Step-Parenting

A stepparent is not a legal relationship, meaning the connection is what really matters. 

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October 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Blending Families, Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog, Parenting
stepparents, legal rights, child custody, Front Page Middle
October 19, 2016

I Was a Typical Divorce Lawyer, Until I Got Divorced

October 19, 2016/ Katherine Miller

LAWYERS SPEAK OUT: "I can’t state this strongly enough: the adversarial, traditional legal process can destroy families, and lives."

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October 19, 2016/ Katherine Miller/
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mediation, adversarial law, Front Page Middle, personal essay
October 12, 2016

Divorce Settlement 101: Interest-Based Negotiation

October 12, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Divorce Settlement 101: Interest-Based Negotiation

Q&A: Austin-based collaborative lawyer Janice Green on the critical difference between interests and positions.

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October 12, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
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janice green, divorce negotiations, divorce settlement, Front Page Middle
October 05, 2016

Protect Those You Love in Divorce, and Remarriage

October 05, 2016/ Naomi Cahn
Protect Those You Love in Divorce, and Remarriage

Want to leave your house to your ex?  Let your new spouse make medical decisions for your kids when you're out of town?  Make sure your legal documents are in order. 

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October 05, 2016/ Naomi Cahn/
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September 28, 2016

Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce

September 28, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce

How Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie divorce affects them, their kids—and those of us who look toward celebs for inspiration.  Let's hope it's a good divorce. 

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September 28, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
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Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, celebrity divorce, media, collaborative divorce, adversarial law, Front Page Middle
September 28, 2016

Flexibility, and 3 Other Key Skills for Collaborative Success

September 28, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo & Mary Atwater
Flexibility, and 3 Other Key Skills for Collaborative Success

Cooperating with your ex can save hundreds of thousands in legal fees, and reduce heartache.  How to get along, even when angry.  

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September 28, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo & Mary Atwater/
Legal Advice
collaborative divorce, cooperative coparenting, mediation, Front Page Middle
September 22, 2016

Should I Use My Neighbor's Lawyer?

September 22, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Should I Use My Neighbor's Lawyer?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: A divorce can go poorly for a variety of reasons. Interview a few lawyers and see who feels right for you.

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September 22, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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August 08, 2016

Are Divorce Laws the Same for Gay Couples?

August 08, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Are Divorce Laws the Same for Gay Couples?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Many LGBT couples clip together other laws to cover details of a relationship begun before marriage was legal.

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August 08, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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Same-Sex Divorce, gay divorce, Legal Advice, 1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS
August 05, 2016

Suing to Relocate: How and Why to Avoid It

August 05, 2016/ Laura Brienza
Suing to Relocate: How and Why to Avoid It

Why suing to move away with your children can mean no one wins. Scenes from a good divorce gone bad in Grey's Anatomy. 

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August 05, 2016/ Laura Brienza/
Parenting, House & Home, Legal Advice
cooperative coparenting, grey's anatomy, relocating divorce
August 04, 2016

Divorce Mediation Plants Seeds for Family Success

August 04, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Divorce Mediation Plants Seeds for Family Success

Q&A:  Colorado attorney/mediator Beth Henson details on the process and perks of mediation over adversarial litigation. Info you need!

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August 04, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Legal Advice, You & Your Ex
Front Page Middle, mediation
August 04, 2016

Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup

August 04, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo
Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup

Far from a vote of no-confidence, a prenup shows an educated awareness of the importance of clarity. 

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August 04, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo/
Money, Legal Advice, Your New Relationship
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