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August 23, 2017

Self-Serving Post on Dating Younger Men

August 23, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Self-Serving Post on Dating Younger Men

Uplifting article in The Telegraph about the "trend" of older women and younger men. 

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August 23, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Your New Relationship
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August 17, 2017

How to Be More Attractive

August 17, 2017/ Wendy Paris

While most of us are drawn to looks, attraction is far more complex than it may appear at first sight. The experts, and real people, weigh in.   

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August 17, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Your New Relationship
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June 14, 2017

3 Tips for Being a Super Stepfather

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
3 Tips for Being a Super Stepfather

Splitopia.com contributors Naomi Cahn and Amy Ziettlow share their research and insights on how to form a great relationship with stepchildren. 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Blending Families
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June 14, 2017

Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should I Stay or Should I Go? 11 Questions to Ask

A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended? 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Dating & Sex
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June 14, 2017

VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

Taking ownership means embracing your power to create your own future. 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Ownership, resilience, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, You & Your Ex
Divorce Party, Closure, Friends, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

A new book, and website, by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant.

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
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May 12, 2017

Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

Learn more about Principle of Parting #1: Commit to self-compassion in this video series. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Principle of Parting, Self-Compassion, universality, Front Page Middle
April 26, 2017

Great Reads: Our Top Picks

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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April 26, 2017

Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

Check out the first of a collection of videos about the Seven Principles of Parting.

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving
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April 26, 2017

Divorce, Millennial Style

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Divorce, Millennial Style

Read the latest on the Good Divorce in the April issue of Marie Claire. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex
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April 11, 2017

Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First

April 11, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Second Marriage: How It Can Benefit From the First

Q&A:  A divorce can make for a better second marriage.  Golden Globe- and Emmy-winning "Sex and The City" writer Cindy Chupack explains why.

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April 11, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Your New Relationship
Sex and the City, Front Page Middle
April 07, 2017

Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza/
Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving
March 25, 2017

Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff/
Friends Relatives Commu, Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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March 22, 2017

Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog, Editor's Picks
celebrity divorce, good divorce
March 02, 2017

What Is Closure, Anyway?

March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris

New York Magazine's Emily Esfahani Smith talks to Wendy Paris about getting closure after a break-up. 

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March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
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March 02, 2017

Say What?! Communication Tips for Blended Families

March 02, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller
Say What?! Communication Tips for Blended Families

A certified organizer dishes out three crucial tips for organizing the information flow in a blended family.

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March 02, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
Blending Families
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March 01, 2017

Why We Love The Day After A Holiday

March 01, 2017/ Mariella Rudi
Why We Love The Day After A Holiday

Spring holidays celebrate renewal; the next day, we celebrate retail sales. 

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March 01, 2017/ Mariella Rudi/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting
Holidays, Valentine's Day, Front Page Bottom
March 01, 2017

Why You Should Write Your Money Story

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Why You Should Write Your Money Story

Looking at your money history can help uncover emotional blocks that impede seemingly purely practical steps, such as budgeting and saving.  

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Money
money, journaling, Financially Wise Women
March 01, 2017

Coping Strategy: Party Like It's 1999

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Reconnecting with activities you loved in the past can increase optimism for the future. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
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Great Reads: Our Top Picks
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Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance
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Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting
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Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
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Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
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Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

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