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March 01, 2017

Why You Should Write Your Money Story

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Why You Should Write Your Money Story

Looking at your money history can help uncover emotional blocks that impede seemingly purely practical steps, such as budgeting and saving.  

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Money
money, journaling, Financially Wise Women
March 01, 2017

Where Can I Find Some Good Divorce Resources?

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

From apps to websites to books to classes: our top picks for getting through divorce and managing co-parenting. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
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March 01, 2017

Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Parenting, Money, Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
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February 13, 2017

Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One

February 13, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller

Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer.  How to know when it's time to seek help.

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February 13, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
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January 24, 2017

New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

Tech lets you get informed, find professionals, log child support and track details—leading to calm and a sense of control.

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January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
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January 12, 2017

Selling the House in Divorce, Or Not

January 12, 2017/ Mariella Rudi

Should you stay or should you go?  Mortgage broker Mona Elhalwagy weighs in on what to do with the family home during a divorce.

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January 12, 2017/ Mariella Rudi/
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October 31, 2016

How Do I Avoid Spending My Savings on Divorce Lawyers?

October 31, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
How Do I Avoid Spending My Savings on Divorce Lawyers?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWERS: There are many ways to reduce the legal cost of divorce. Here seven good ones. 

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October 31, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
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October 05, 2016

Protect Those You Love in Divorce, and Remarriage

October 05, 2016/ Naomi Cahn
Protect Those You Love in Divorce, and Remarriage

Want to leave your house to your ex?  Let your new spouse make medical decisions for your kids when you're out of town?  Make sure your legal documents are in order. 

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October 05, 2016/ Naomi Cahn/
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September 22, 2016

Divorce Finances 101: Educate Yourself

September 22, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller
Divorce Finances 101: Educate Yourself

Yes, you can take charge of your finances, even if you've never done so before. CFP Geoff Burroughs on the empowerment of learning.

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September 22, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
Money
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September 19, 2016

6 Powerful Money Moves for Women

September 19, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller
6 Powerful Money Moves for Women

Don't rush discussions just to get through it, keep custody and cash apart, and four other important steps to financial security and serenity.  

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September 19, 2016/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
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August 08, 2016

Develop a Loving New Relationship . . . with Your Money

August 08, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Develop a Loving New Relationship . . . with Your Money

Transitions can send dysfunctional financial habits into overdrive. CFP Brittney Castro offers 5 tips for developing a warm relationship with your cold, hard cash.

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August 08, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
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August 04, 2016

Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup

August 04, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo
Before You Remarry, Consider a Prenup

Far from a vote of no-confidence, a prenup shows an educated awareness of the importance of clarity. 

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August 04, 2016/ Regina A. DeMeo/
Money, Legal Advice, Your New Relationship
prenup, remarry
July 27, 2016

Can I Get Free Legal Advice?

July 27, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Can I Get Free Legal Advice?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Many lawyers will provide general advice on the phone for free. Here's how to ask. 

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July 27, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
Legal Advice, Money
1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, free legal advice, divorce lawers
March 10, 2016

Fighting About Child Support? Yes, You Need SupportPay.Com

March 10, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Fighting About Child Support? Yes, You Need SupportPay.Com

Q&A: Launched in 2013 by Silicon Valley divorced mom Sheri Atwood, SupportPay.com helps parents manage payments—and emotions. 

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March 10, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Parenting, Money
February 04, 2016

The New Small Business of Divorce

February 04, 2016/ Wendy Paris
The New Small Business of Divorce

An increasing number of new businesses are cropping up around divorce. Solace or social revolution?

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February 04, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Money
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May 07, 2015

The D-I-Y Divorce

May 07, 2015/ Wendy Paris
The D-I-Y Divorce

Why we chose to use a storefront divorce "store" to make our split legal. 

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May 07, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
Money, Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog
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