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June 14, 2017

VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris
VIDEO: Principle of Parting #2: Take Ownership (of Your Future and Past)

Taking ownership means embracing your power to create your own future. 

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June 14, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Ownership, resilience, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should You Throw a Divorce Party?

We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, You & Your Ex
Divorce Party, Closure, Friends, Front Page Middle
May 12, 2017

Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Option B: Sandberg and Grant on Resilience

A new book, and website, by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant.

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
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May 12, 2017

Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Commit to Self-Compassion: The Video

Learn more about Principle of Parting #1: Commit to self-compassion in this video series. 

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May 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving
Principle of Parting, Self-Compassion, universality, Front Page Middle
April 26, 2017

Great Reads: Our Top Picks

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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April 26, 2017

Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Too Tired to Read? Watch! Splitopia Videos

Check out the first of a collection of videos about the Seven Principles of Parting.

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving
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April 07, 2017

Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza/
Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving
March 25, 2017

Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff/
Friends Relatives Commu, Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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March 22, 2017

Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog, Editor's Picks
celebrity divorce, good divorce
March 02, 2017

What Is Closure, Anyway?

March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris

New York Magazine's Emily Esfahani Smith talks to Wendy Paris about getting closure after a break-up. 

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March 02, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, You & Your Ex
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March 01, 2017

Why We Love The Day After A Holiday

March 01, 2017/ Mariella Rudi
Why We Love The Day After A Holiday

Spring holidays celebrate renewal; the next day, we celebrate retail sales. 

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March 01, 2017/ Mariella Rudi/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting
Holidays, Valentine's Day, Front Page Bottom
March 01, 2017

Coping Strategy: Party Like It's 1999

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Reconnecting with activities you loved in the past can increase optimism for the future. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
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March 01, 2017

Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Parenting, Money, Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
money blog
January 25, 2017

Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage. 

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January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
January 24, 2017

New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

Tech lets you get informed, find professionals, log child support and track details—leading to calm and a sense of control.

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January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
divorce apps, divorce guidance, wevorce, divorcehotel, technology
December 21, 2016

Feel Like You're Going Through Withdrawal? Your Brain on Divorce

December 21, 2016/ Laura Brienza
Feel Like You're Going Through Withdrawal? Your Brain on Divorce

Love can be like an addiction and chemically alters our brain. When it comes to an end, it can leave you feeling the same effects as going cold turkey.

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December 21, 2016/ Laura Brienza/
Coping & Thriving
love, addiction, withdrawal
December 21, 2016

Principle of Parting #6: Resist the Urge to Compare

December 21, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Principle of Parting #6: Resist the Urge to Compare

It can be hard to avoid negative self-comparison, but you want to remain focused on your own path. 

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December 21, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Coping & Thriving
Principle of Parting, Comparison
December 14, 2016

Holidays During Divorce, When Your Ex Has A New Partner

December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Holidays During Divorce, When Your Ex Has A New Partner

Our holidays and rituals always evolve. They have to, in order to stay meaningful, whatever our family structure.  

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December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Blending Families, Coping & Thriving
Holidays
December 14, 2016

Principle of Parting #5: Combat Anger with Empathy

December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Principle of Parting #5: Combat Anger with Empathy

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” --The Buddah

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December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Editor's Picks
emotional transitions, self-compassion, healing, forgiveness, Front page middle
December 07, 2016

Seeking Freeedom? Principle of Parting #3: Don’t Confuse Filing with Closure

December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris

Rushing to make it legal can actually slow down your divorce and make closure harder. 

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December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Legal Advice
Closure, Legal Advice, separation
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