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April 26, 2017

Great Reads: Our Top Picks

April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Great Reads: Our Top Picks

Check out our top picks for help with self-compassion, hope, parenting in divorce and more. 

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April 26, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
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April 07, 2017

Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza
Splitopian Profile: Dancing Her Way to Serenity and Romance

Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.

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April 07, 2017/ Laura Brienza/
Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving
March 25, 2017

Splitopian Profile: "It Was Part of My Past, and Will Be in My Future"

March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff

Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing. 

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March 25, 2017/ Splitopia Staff/
Friends Relatives Commu, Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
front page top
March 22, 2017

Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Celebs Split Well, and Focus on Co-Parenting

Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.  

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March 22, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog, Editor's Picks
celebrity divorce, good divorce
March 01, 2017

Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Why I Got My Ex a Hammock for Valentine's Day

Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
You & Your Ex, Wendy's Blog, Blending Families, Editor's Picks
Valentine's Day, Holidays
March 01, 2017

Good Divorce Weekend: The No-Spending Spree

March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family. 

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March 01, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Parenting, Money, Editor's Picks, Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog
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February 13, 2017

Financial Stress Led This Divorced Mom to Hire a Money Coach, Then Become One

February 13, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller

Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer.  How to know when it's time to seek help.

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February 13, 2017/ Alysia Patterson Mueller/
Money, Editor's Picks
January 25, 2017

Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?

January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?

Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides. 

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January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Dating & Sex, You & Your Ex, Editor's Picks
sex, separation, sex with ex
January 25, 2017

Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris
Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments

Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage. 

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January 25, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Wendy's Blog, Coping & Thriving, Editor's Picks
January 25, 2017

Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

January 25, 2017/ Susan Orlins
Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week. 

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January 25, 2017/ Susan Orlins/
Parenting, Editor's Picks
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January 24, 2017

New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris
New Divorce Apps Ease Cooperation

Tech lets you get informed, find professionals, log child support and track details—leading to calm and a sense of control.

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January 24, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Parenting, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Legal Advice, Money, Editor's Picks
divorce apps, divorce guidance, wevorce, divorcehotel, technology
January 12, 2017

Selling the House in Divorce, Or Not

January 12, 2017/ Mariella Rudi

Should you stay or should you go?  Mortgage broker Mona Elhalwagy weighs in on what to do with the family home during a divorce.

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January 12, 2017/ Mariella Rudi/
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Mortgage, Money, House
January 12, 2017

Hosting a Dinner for 13, Newly Single

January 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris

Why hosting a dinner party for 13 people the month after my husband moved out gave me confidence to move forward as a single woman.  What you can do to gain strength. 

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January 12, 2017/ Wendy Paris/
House & Home, Wendy's Blog, Friends Relatives Commu, Editor's Picks
Friends, Creativity
December 22, 2016

Retail Therapy: What to Get the Newly Single

December 22, 2016/ Mariella Rudi
Retail Therapy: What to Get the Newly Single

It's hard to know what to get a friend when their newly unattached. Splitopia's Official Divorce Gift Guide is here to make their transition a smooth one during the holidays.

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December 22, 2016/ Mariella Rudi/
House & Home, Editor's Picks
Holidays, Gifts
December 21, 2016

How to Tell Others You're Getting Divorced

December 21, 2016/ Wendy Paris

Do I announce my divorce on Facebook? How to use a divorce elevator speech to get the word out about your split.

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December 21, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Dear Splitopian, Editor's Picks
December 14, 2016

Remarriage: 5 Keys to Successful New Love

December 14, 2016/ Phillip Kiehl
Remarriage: 5 Keys to Successful New Love

Marriage and family therapist Phil Kiehl vowed to make his second marriage better than his first. Here are five steps he took to create lasting love.

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December 14, 2016/ Phillip Kiehl/
Your New Relationship, Dating & Sex, Editor's Picks
remarried, divorce success, Front page middle
December 14, 2016

Principle of Parting #5: Combat Anger with Empathy

December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Principle of Parting #5: Combat Anger with Empathy

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” --The Buddah

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December 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Coping & Thriving, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Editor's Picks
emotional transitions, self-compassion, healing, forgiveness, Front page middle
December 07, 2016

Diary of a Dissolving Marriage, As Seen Through Food

December 07, 2016/ Daliya Karnofsky
Diary of a Dissolving Marriage, As Seen Through Food

"The heavy food soothed and sedated me. And then, slowly, the marriage itself began to feel sedated." 

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December 07, 2016/ Daliya Karnofsky/
House & Home, Editor's Picks
December 07, 2016

How Good Divorce Lawyers Have Improved Divorce

December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris

We've all heard about "shark" lawyers circulating failing marriages, but some of the best innovations in cooperative divorce and co-parenting come from divorce professionals. 

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December 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog, Editor's Picks
collaborative divorce
November 30, 2016

Solo Parenting & Screen Time: New Rules to Know

November 30, 2016/ Stephanie O'Leary, Psy.D.

The American Academy of Pediatrics has relaxed the "rules" on screen time. Psychologist and parenting expert Stephanie O'Leary offers tips for navigating them in real life.

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November 30, 2016/ Stephanie O'Leary, Psy.D./
Parenting, Editor's Picks
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