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November 30, 2016

One Question, Three Lawyers: How to Find a Good Mediator

November 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
One Question, Three Lawyers: How to Find a Good Mediator

Dear Splitopia: I want to mediate, but how do I know if a mediator is any good? 

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November 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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November 02, 2016

Must We Follow State Child Support Guidelines? We Like Our Plan!

November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff

While most states let you opt out of state-mandated formulas, you still need a fair agreement for everyone's happiness. (1 Question, 3 Lawyers)

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November 02, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, child support, family court, Front Page Middle, 1 question
August 08, 2016

Are Divorce Laws the Same for Gay Couples?

August 08, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Are Divorce Laws the Same for Gay Couples?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Many LGBT couples clip together other laws to cover details of a relationship begun before marriage was legal.

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August 04, 2016

One of Us Wants Mediation, the Other Seeks War

August 04, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
One of Us Wants Mediation, the Other Seeks War

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Mediation is like doing the tango; you can't quite do it alone. Steps to help a resistant spouse be willing to get along. 

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August 04, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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legal advice, 1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, bad divorce, Mediation
July 30, 2016

Do I Need a Lawyer AND a Mediator?

July 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Do I Need a Lawyer AND a Mediator?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: If your mediator is not a lawyer, hiring one can bring extra confidence—and flag potential problems. 

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July 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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July 30, 2016

Why Do My friends Think I Need a Shark Lawyer?

July 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Why Do My friends Think I Need a Shark Lawyer?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Taking an adversarial, blood-letting approach can bring unnecessary expense and heartache. 

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July 30, 2016/ Splitopia Staff/
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1 QUESTION 3 LAWERS, shark lawyer, friends advice, divorce lawyer
July 27, 2016

Can I Get Free Legal Advice?

July 27, 2016/ Splitopia Staff
Can I Get Free Legal Advice?

1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Many lawyers will provide general advice on the phone for free. Here's how to ask. 

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Should You Have Sex ... With Your Ex?
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Facing a Tough Transition? Create Positive Moments
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Revisiting Vicki Lansky's "Divorce Book for Parents"

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