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October 05, 2016

Laughter in the Face of It: Splitopia Improv Show

October 05, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Laughter in the Face of It: Splitopia Improv Show

Why I decided to do an improv comedy show about divorce. 

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September 28, 2016

Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce

September 28, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Why a Hollywood Ending Matters in This Divorce

How Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie divorce affects them, their kids—and those of us who look toward celebs for inspiration.  Let's hope it's a good divorce. 

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September 28, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
Legal Advice, Wendy's Blog, You & Your Ex, Parenting
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August 25, 2016

Compassion in Divorce and Greater Good Science Center

August 25, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Compassion in Divorce and Greater Good Science Center

Learn how to "rebuild" yourself after divorce.

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July 27, 2016

Reading for Pleasure and Profit

July 27, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Reading for Pleasure and Profit

In divorce, many of us once again turn to books to get through. Join my conversation about books with Jeffrey Davis. 

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June 24, 2016

The Good Divorce, Canadian-Style

June 24, 2016/ Wendy Paris
The Good Divorce, Canadian-Style

I was happy to see this great article today in Canada's largest-circulation national paper, The Globe and Mail, about divorce, up north. 

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June 17, 2016

Mindfulness in Divorce, and in New York City

June 17, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Mindfulness in Divorce, and in New York City

How reading The Untethered Soul gave me a new appreciation of the subway, and my life. 

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April 29, 2016

Divorce in Houston: Journalist Makes Copy from Chaos

April 29, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Divorce in Houston: Journalist Makes Copy from Chaos

Kathryn Peterson is the "Carrie Bradshaw of the South," blogging about divorce for the Houston Chronicle's "Grey Matters" column. 

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April 29, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
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April 04, 2016

"Excellent Ex-Husband" Is Not an Oxymoron

April 04, 2016/ Wendy Paris
"Excellent Ex-Husband" Is Not an Oxymoron

Being an ex-husband is an important job, and one with such a low bar, it's easy to excel. 

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March 30, 2016

Reconnecting with My Past Helps Me Value the Present

March 30, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Reconnecting with My Past Helps Me Value the Present

Reconnecting with places and people from our past can help us remember who we are, and how far we've come.

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March 17, 2016

Is Marriage Old-Fashioned? Obsolete?

March 17, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Is Marriage Old-Fashioned? Obsolete?

I'm a big fan of marriage, but during my book tour this past Spring, this question came up:  Do we actually need it anymore? 

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marriage, obsolete, idea of marriage, spitopia, book tour
March 02, 2016

Gretchen Rubin Writes about Splitopia

March 02, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Gretchen Rubin Writes about Splitopia

I was excited to talk to the fabulous happiness guru Gretchen Rubin about Splitopia for her site. 

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January 26, 2016

Getting Along Better After Divorce, Despite Differences

January 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Getting Along Better After Divorce, Despite Differences

While adversarial divorce positions marriage and divorce as opposites, collaborative law can make friends of near-enemies. 

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January 26, 2016/ Wendy Paris/
You & Your Ex, Wendy's Blog, Legal Advice
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January 14, 2016

Why I Wrote a Book About the Good Divorce

January 14, 2016/ Wendy Paris
Why I Wrote a Book About the Good Divorce

When my husband and I announced our decision to split, I was surprised by the negative forecasts of some of my friends. I set out to find the truth. 

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January 07, 2016

My 20 Percent Husband

January 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris
My 20 Percent Husband

Psychology Today magazine runs my essay on why a decent divorce is far more realistic than an all-out war.  

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November 26, 2015

Christmas with My Former In-Laws, Again?

November 26, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Christmas with My Former In-Laws, Again?

PERSONAL ESSAY: "It isn’t as if you can create your good divorce (or hammer through your bad one), brush off your hands, and consider your work done, particularly if your have children."  

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November 19, 2015

3 Steps Toward Peace, In Divorce or Marriage

November 19, 2015/ Wendy Paris
3 Steps Toward Peace, In Divorce or Marriage

From decreasing negative rumination to learning the right lessons from the past, we can continue to improve our relationship with a former spouse, or new one.  

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November 19, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
You & Your Ex, Wendy's Blog, Dating & Sex
get along with your ex
October 08, 2015

Does Divorce = Failure? (Is Failure a Bad Thing?)

October 08, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Does Divorce = Failure? (Is Failure a Bad Thing?)

Q&A: Author and journalist Carlin Flora on the upsides of falling short. Hint: you learn empathy, humility, maturity.

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September 22, 2015

How Married People Should Talk About Divorce

September 22, 2015/ Wendy Paris
How Married People Should Talk About Divorce

Focus on your commitment as parents and love for your children. 

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September 22, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
Friends Relatives Commu, Wendy's Blog, Parenting
August 06, 2015

Is Tinder a Good Matchmaker?

August 06, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Is Tinder a Good Matchmaker?

Even if you don't find your soul mate, you may find a friend.

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August 06, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
Dating & Sex, Wendy's Blog
finding a match, friends, online dating
July 30, 2015

A Successful Blended Family Takes Effort, Honesty

July 30, 2015/ Wendy Paris
A Successful Blended Family Takes Effort, Honesty

Q&A: Start by having realistic expectations, particularly if you have children, says Anne Brennan Malec, a Chicago-based clinical psychologist and relationships author.

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Blending Families, Wendy's Blog, Your New Relationship
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