My 20 Percent Husband
/Psychology Today magazine runs my essay on why a decent divorce is far more realistic than an all-out war.
Read MorePsychology Today magazine runs my essay on why a decent divorce is far more realistic than an all-out war.
Read MorePERSONAL ESSAY: "It isn’t as if you can create your good divorce (or hammer through your bad one), brush off your hands, and consider your work done, particularly if your have children."
Read MoreFrom decreasing negative rumination to learning the right lessons from the past, we can continue to improve our relationship with a former spouse, or new one.
Read MoreI found it more productive to seek help with a discrete problem rather than a Total Personality Overhaul of my spouse, or me.
Read MoreAs Sun Tzu wrote, “Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.”
Read MoreShould you go for a tropical mediation vacation? The founder of DivorceHotel says, "Yes!" Here's why.
Read MoreYou need less from an ex. You might change. And two other relationship-improvement factors.
Read MoreMediation and collaborative divorce are two of the most important innovations in family law—and can save you money and heartache.
Read MoreWhile most of us are drawn to looks, attraction is far more complex than it may appear at first sight. The experts, and real people, weigh in.
Splitopia.com contributors Naomi Cahn and Amy Ziettlow share their research and insights on how to form a great relationship with stepchildren.
A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended?
We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce.
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Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.
Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing.
Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.
Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how.
Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family.
Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer. How to know when it's time to seek help.
Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides.
Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage.
Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week.
Uplifting article in The Telegraph about the "trend" of older women and younger men.