One of Us Wants Mediation, the Other Seeks War
/1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Mediation is like doing the tango; you can't quite do it alone. Steps to help a resistant spouse be willing to get along.
Read More1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Mediation is like doing the tango; you can't quite do it alone. Steps to help a resistant spouse be willing to get along.
Read MoreWhy getting it right the second time around may mean NOT doing so much work on your relationship.
Read More1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: If your mediator is not a lawyer, hiring one can bring extra confidence—and flag potential problems.
Read More1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Taking an adversarial, blood-letting approach can bring unnecessary expense and heartache.
Read MoreIn divorce, many of us once again turn to books to get through. Join my conversation about books with Jeffrey Davis.
Read More1 QUESTION, 3 LAWYERS: Many lawyers will provide general advice on the phone for free. Here's how to ask.
Read MoreYou don't have to be a great poet to use expressive writing to help you move through divorce. It's a tool to help all of us face what we're feeling.
Read MorePERSONAL ESSAY: "Lying awake in bed later that night, I wondered: was finding the diary a curse or a gift?"
Read MoreI was happy to see this great article today in Canada's largest-circulation national paper, The Globe and Mail, about divorce, up north.
Read MoreHow reading The Untethered Soul gave me a new appreciation of the subway, and my life.
Read MoreHow one New Jersey-based actor, educator and mother wrote a one-woman play to help her laugh at—and learn from—her marriage's end.
Read MoreQ&A: "Self and place are uniquely intertwined, and home and self especially." Design psychologist Toby Israel on form and function.
Read MoreKathryn Peterson is the "Carrie Bradshaw of the South," blogging about divorce for the Houston Chronicle's "Grey Matters" column.
Read MoreBeing an ex-husband is an important job, and one with such a low bar, it's easy to excel.
Read MoreReconnecting with places and people from our past can help us remember who we are, and how far we've come.
Read MoreI'm a big fan of marriage, but during my book tour this past Spring, this question came up: Do we actually need it anymore?
Read MoreI had so much help from so many people over the three-plus years of writing the book, was keenly aware of the importance of friends and family in all major life transitions.
Read MoreQ&A: Launched in 2013 by Silicon Valley divorced mom Sheri Atwood, SupportPay.com helps parents manage payments—and emotions.
Read MoreFor some couples, time apart leads to reconciliation. Journalist Abby Ellin's article in The New York Times about couples who divorced, then remarried.
Read MorePERSONAL ESSAY: "I opened up the dating apps, scrolled through the endless array of faces, and asked myself, 'Does this one spark joy?' If the answer was no, then . . . next!"
Read MoreWhile most of us are drawn to looks, attraction is far more complex than it may appear at first sight. The experts, and real people, weigh in.
Splitopia.com contributors Naomi Cahn and Amy Ziettlow share their research and insights on how to form a great relationship with stepchildren.
A recent article in the New York Times poses the question: What should you ask when the love has ended?
We have ceremonies and rituals to honor nearly all of life's passages. Increasingly, this includes divorce.
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Violinist and historical musicology doctoral student Meagan Mason always loved music, but had never really danced to it—until she and her husband of eight years split up about a year ago.
Writer Linda Zukauskas realized she could divorce her dance partner, and still keep dancing.
Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, a.k.a. Gwyneth's ex, talks about how reading Victor Frankl helped him get through divorce.
Divorce is an interactive relationship, meaning your actions can improve the attitude and actions of your former spouse. Here's how.
Not shopping, from Black Friday deals through Cyber Monday specials, made this holiday weekend special for my family.
Struggling to make ends meet? Money therapy may be the answer. How to know when it's time to seek help.
Is there anything wrong with sex with an ex? It seems innocuous. Not to mention fun. But it's rarely without emotional downsides.
Creating more moments of joy can reawaken parts of yourself or your heritage that may have faded in marriage.
Vicky Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents offers a children's Bill of Rights, including the right not be used as a pawn between parents. The author, who was 75, died this week.
Uplifting article in The Telegraph about the "trend" of older women and younger men.